August 23, 2006

to be or not to be

We have friends that were planning on getting married the first weekend in October. Today we were told that the wedding is "officially" off. You always here about weddings being called off, but you never expect it to be your own friends. We hope they take the time to figure out what they need in their own lives. These are two very special people who have made the choice to postpone their marriage. The reasons are their own. I wish them godspeed in working through this. It can't be easy. I do however commend them for making this choice instead of wondering after the wedding.

The question I have is:

Does the bachelor party go on as scheduled? The party is set up for next weekend. Do the boys go as planned and the trip becomes a makeshift buddies go golfing weekend. Does the bachelor go?

I have collected my thoughts on this. What do you think?

*** update*** the boys are going on the trip originally planned. To bad for the men who don't swing a club at the course. Anyway they have named the nights accodingly: Aligators in the Bayou, and Fistfights on Bourbon wrapped into one.
Nope, they aren't going to NO.


Blogger The G Family said...

I say wedding off, bachelor party off...well but then maybe if she's the one that called it off he might need a weekend with the guys as a "pick me up" tough call....

August 22, 2006 9:10 PM  
Blogger Kailani said...

I think he shouldn't have a bachelor party. It will probably turn into a "boys" event instead.

The Pink Diary

August 22, 2006 9:23 PM  
Blogger Petite Mom Blogger said...

I'm not sure but I'd guess it's off and rescheduled. Good luck to your friends.

I have friends getting married this weekend.

August 23, 2006 6:53 AM  
Blogger Chas Ravndal said...

I havent been into a wedding or been involve with one yet. Anyway got here from WingedEmotion. Lovely blog you got here!

August 23, 2006 6:58 AM  
Blogger Mon said...

Ack, the wedding is off! It must be in the air! My best friend and her fiance broke it off too! Theirs was only in the works though, yours is much much closer!
I would think if something so big happened to postpone the wedding, they would need some time with friends to have fun, party on!

August 23, 2006 7:13 AM  
Blogger Tracy said...

I would "postpone" it as they have with the wedding. They are no longer getting married when they were scheduled to nor should they have the scheduled bachelor party. Save that for when they do have the wedding. Ya know? Just my thought.

August 23, 2006 7:54 AM  
Blogger Wombat said...

She stopped wedding.

Bachelor Party on. Bachelor goes. He needs support.

He stopped wedding.

Bachelor Party on. Bachelor attends. He needs support.

August 23, 2006 9:47 AM  
Blogger Sis said...

I say still have the bachelor weekend away, as you probably need some time away to reflect and could use the support of your friends. I would change the name of the get together to weekend away with my buds...

August 23, 2006 3:10 PM  
Blogger Hothousemomma said...

I love the variety of responses you all left. They both are doing well and will remain a couple and see what happens. As for the boys, they are trying to re-route the original plan and get plane tickets to Vegas. I don't think you can have a bad time there with a bunch of friends. The bride gave the pre-groom the nod to go as planned. I figure how could he have a good time knowing what the weekend was mean to be his b-party

August 23, 2006 3:18 PM  

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